Sex plays important role in happy married life and I’m pretty much sure if sex life suffers then, definitely relationship suffer simultaneously. A healthy mind makes a healthy and relaxed body and both are imperative for attaining better orgasms during sex. Orgasmic dysfunction or inhibited sexual excitement or simply anorgasmia is a condition whereby, a woman totally fails to attain orgasms even when sexually aroused. This is a sign of a major sexual problem and the cause of disputes and conflicts in a relationship because of the lack of sexual intimacy and satisfaction.
During sex, when we sexually excited, both mind and body are involved in a series of complex processes, which finally lead in a peak sexual response. Thus, both mind and body need to be functioning well in order to stimulate an orgasm.
Causes that may lead to orgasmic dysfunction are:
Boredom or missing interest in sexual indulgences
Hormonal disorders or changes brought on during menopause
Chronic illnesses that affect sexual interest and acquired negative attitudes (usually from childhood or adolescence experience) towards sex
Past traumatic experiences relating to rape or sexual abuse
Certain prescription drugs like antidepressants and many more
Tension or high fatigue
Sometimes Medical conditions affecting the nervous system around the pelvis
Symptoms of orgasmic dysfunction may include:
Unable to attain orgasms
It takes longer than normal to reach an orgasm
Not having satisfying orgasms
When sex is not enjoyable, it becomes a chore rather than a mutually satisfying, playful and intimate experience. That’s why when we take a healthy attitude towards sex as well as education about sexual stimulation and response tends to help minimize problems.